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diff --git a/data/pages/en/article/1955-the_american_parish/text.txt b/data/pages/en/article/1955-the_american_parish/text.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..b360b1d --- /dev/null +++ b/data/pages/en/article/1955-the_american_parish/text.txt @@ -0,0 +1,409 @@ +# The American Parish + +In a modern city parish many people do not find what they are looking +for. Many of those who are dissatisfied never voice their disappointment; +many do not even realize they are disappointed. Some put the blame +for their dissatisfaction on the pastor, the bishop or the trustee of the +Church. The pastor again and his assistants, if ever they become conscious of their people’s criticism, put the blame on their parishioners’ +unreasonable requests or ungenerous help. + +Do people look to their parish for things the parish could not offer or +does the modern city parish fundamentally not offer what it should? +More practical inquiries might be directed toward the study of methods. Here we ask the more fundamental “what” should be offered and +leave the “how” to other articles. + +Take Jose, I met him one Sunday when, during the eleven o’clock +high Mass, I went out through the main door of our Church. There I saw +him among five darkaired and bronzekinned people. From far away +you could have guessed their origin, the origin of 37% of the baptized +Catholics in New York City, Puerto Rico. Why had they come to Church +and then remained outside? Had they gone in or were they waiting for +the next Mass? They were all standing in a little group and talking lethargically. I went up to them and said “que tal” which means “Hi,” and slowly +they turned around, looking at me. After a few more words their eyes +began to sparkle. Before they had been completely unrelated to the surroundings: their dresses were almost imperceptibly differently cut from +those of the other parishioners, their language was different and while +the others were in Church they were outside. Now suddenly, through +a few Spanish words they seemed related to their surroundings. They +started to speak: they all came from Moca, a little place in the hills of that +beautiful island; they had arrived here in New York just a few weeks ago. +They had found out where the Church was, and when they looked at it +they would not believe that it was a Catholic Church: a Church had to +be in the middle of a plaza, in the middle of the village, the center of a +community. Here they had found a building with some strange pointed +arches in the middle of two tall houses right on a booming street. +The Church inside was dark, with light strangely colored from +stainedlass windows, instead of the simple, whitewashed structure— +with wide openings for windows to let in as much air as possible—that +they were used to. But they had recognized this as a Catholic church, +because, upon an inspection, they had found the picture of Our Lady +of Perpetual Help on one of the altars; and that much they knew, where +that picture was, there had to be Our Lord. They had discovered the +picture on a weekday evening, and now on Sunday they had come back +to the Church, they had wanted to go to Mass. Now why did they not go +in and follow Mass? I asked them, and got an answer which baffled me. +They said, because of the ushers. They had never been accompanied to +a pew by an usher. Oftentimes they had no pews in Church. Here they +saw parishioners paying their way into Church. They didn’t realize that +these people—or their parents—had built this church by themselves, that +they now felt responsible for its support and maintenance, that it was +not like Puerto Rico where the government had built churches until the +Americans arrived. So they had turned away from Church because of the +ushers, as one of them said; because Mass starts so much on time, the +other said, Our Lady was there, they said—but the warmth and the life +of the people seemed lacking. + +I could not help thinking back to Puerto Rico; my first Sunday there +in a big parish, in the mountains. On Saturday the pastor asked me say +Mass the next day in the mountains, in three different mission chapels +(he had twelve altogether), since he would have to say the Masses in the +main village. If there was a priest around to help out, every four weeks +Mass was said on Sunday in every chapel. The first Mass I said at about +six in the morning, after I had slept all night on the altar steps of the +chapel, then I travelled on, by horseback, to the next chapel. I heard +confessions, said Mass, baptized, married . . . and off I went to the third +chapel, on horseback still, where I arrived after noon. People were sitting +around in Church eating their bananas and chewing cane, and on the +Church steps they had lighted a little fire to cook something. They continued their conversation in Church while I heard confessions; for Mass +everybody was silent and most of them knelt on the crude floor while two +lonely dogs ran around among them, and when I started to baptize the +conversation resumed. In the evening, I was amazed at the answer I got +from the pastor, a Puerto Rican trained in a United States seminary, to my +question as to whether he thought this behavior slightly disrespectful: +Our people believe that God is their Father, and they want to behave in +Church as they behave in their Father’s house. There are no ushers in +Jose’s Father’s house. Dinner does not start on time, probably he has no +watch, he goes to Church when everybody else goes to Church. Mass is an +important happening in the family’s life—a happening which brings him +together with all his neighbors. The Church is the center of his village +even if he seldom goes into it. The rare Sunday when the priest comes to +his chapel, the Mass is a big event, even if he does not attend. He knows +almost everybody whom he meets at Mass. Mass is easily understood as +a family dinner—as the “communion” of the community. + +## Another World + +No wonder that he is confused at this big, clean, Gothic building where +an usher assigns him his place next to some unknown lady, where he +is allowed to go into Church only five minutes before Mass starts, and +has to leave as soon as Mass is over—where hardly anybody is standing +outside the Church after Mass since there is no plaza—and where there +are so many Masses that you cannot see Mass as a family dinner, a house +built around you, to suit you. + +Standing there on that cold winter morning during the eleven o’clock +high Mass, I realized how hard it will be to explain to Jose and his friends +that this is the same Church which, under another climate, appears so +very different from at home. It will be hard for Jose to understand that +he will be known to God alone in Church and hardly anybody else will +recognize him. It will be hard for him to understand that you can go to +Holy Communion every day in a Church where there are several Masses +every day, and hard, too, to understand the English Gospel the priest +reads, but even more difficult than to understand will it be for him to +feel at home in English. I might be able to make him understand some +of the features of parish life—but to understand a world is far from being +at home in it. And how strange that a man should not feel at home in +the house of his Father. How strange to each other two Catholic worlds +can be. It is not always easy to see how beautiful it is that the universal +Church can look so different in different cultures. + +Or think of Maria, Jose’s sister: she came with him to Mass, and with +him was frightened away from the Church. Now she cannot believe that +this is the communion mass of the Children of Mary. Where are their +white veils? Why do they not sing, does nobody here know the song of +Our Lady of Guadalupe? And why do people now start to come out of +Church, and without talking to each other go straight across the busy, +dirty street headed for home? Why do they not hang around and talk to +each other? Jose and his friends cannot well avoid being bewildered. + +## Dissatisfied Children + +This is but one of the many instances into which you run continually, as +a parish priest, of people who do not find in their parish what they came +to look for. Jose’s problem is not from this point of view different from the +bewilderment of the convert, who during instructions has found faith in +the reality of the Mystical Body visible in Christ’s Church—and then finds +himself socially isolated among faithful churchgoers. And it is not different from the problem of the mature layman exposed to years of sermons +taken from Father Murphy’s Three Homilies for Every Sunday Gospel—or of +the young couple recently moved into a new apartment, who had hoped to +find in the parish an atmosphere in which spiritual friendship is fostered, +and found perfect distribution of sacraments, ritual and Catholic school +education, but not the spirit they had hoped for. + +To all these this parish does not give what they expect: to Jose it +does not give the atmosphere of his home, to the convert it does not +give the new human community he thought would be a consequence of +spiritual communion, to the man yearning to grow it does not give the +adult education program he hoped for, but only an endless repetition of +what he has become insensible to through yearly recital in grade school +catechism. It forces the young couple to make their own home a shelter +for friendship without adequate help from the pastor from whom they +expect it. + +All these people come to the parish because there they find what +seems to them most important: Mass, the confessional, and catechism +for their children. Objections are directed not against the things they get, +but rather against the frame within which they get them: Mass remains +the sacrifice even if it is said quickly and adorned with a hasty sermon. +Your sins are forgiven even if the priest is too rushed to give advice—and +most people are so used to a silent confessor that they might be surprised +at an instruction. Catechism remains true even if Sister has sixty children +in her parochial school class. Marriage remains valid even if all the bride +remembers of prenuptial instruction is that an overburdened priest, in +ten minutes, asked her under oath a few strange questions, such as: had +she ever been to a psychiatrist, would she be faithful to her husband, +would she promise to avoid contraception, while at the same time he had +to answer the phone on a sick call and take care of a staggering visitor at +the door. + +Is there something which could be interpreted as a criticism of the +whole system underlying all these objectionable details? Criticism of +detail is directed mostly against the officiating priest, not against the +parish as such, and therefore is not pertinent to this discussion. + +## Criteria for Criticism + +Could it be that there is something fundamentally wrong with the parish +in modern America? And if that be so, may Christians, especially laymen, +criticize their Church, of which the unit most real to them is the parish? +Many are afraid to do so out of a double misunderstanding: they do not +distinguish between criticism and blame—and they do not distinguish +the human from the divine element in the Church. + +We cannot remain forever small children and take our parents for +granted; only after the teens can a mature love for a parent develop. It’s +the same with Mother Church: an understanding of her humanity in +her human weakness will only strengthen, not diminish our love. Those +who blame the Church mostly shrink from the personal responsibility +which grows out of the realization that we are members of the Church. +Blame is a fruit of laziness and perpetuates what is deplorable. Criticism +brings about change, either in him who criticizes or in the Church criticized. It is always the fruit of hard work and prayer. A critical attitude +toward the parish is just one of the areas in which Christian love for the +Church can develop. But since criticism is always an implicit invitation +to change, we have to pass to the second point and see to what degree the +Church, or, concretely, the parish, is subject to change. And there are two +attitudes toward change, equally unChristian, among Christians. One +is the refusal of any development. This has its roots in a deep mistrust +of human nature, as if God had not entrusted men with the power to +make His institutions practicable, as if the mandate given to the apostles +had been withdrawn. This mistrust lies in this error: necessary historical +developments are taken for divine institutions. Manade frames are +taken for divine works of art. This attitude can be remedied by the study +of theology and history. Theology will show us the seed of divine revelation and will teach us what God has done Himself; history will show us +what men have done under God. + +Opposed to the refusal of any development is the attitude of those +who always want to change, who are like children who do not want to live +in the dusty home their family built over centuries, and prefer to live in a +quickly built shack on the edges of the property. If this attitude does not +have its root in the unstable character of its proponents, it is based on an +over estimation of human inventiveness within God’s supernatural plan. +The remedy to this inclination toward inorganic and sudden changes lies +in an education toward humility. Custom always offers an assumption +for wisdom, at least practical wisdom. Criticism of the modern parish +therefore presupposes some knowledge of theology and of history, which +often becomes visible in custom. + +## Follow the Man to His House . . . to the Upper Room + +Unless we know how a country grew, we do not know what it really is +like. Unless we know what the parish was meant to be by God, and what +it looked like when men first made God’s idea visible, we will not have +the basis to judge the parish we have today. How did the parish start? +Certainly not with the apostles. + +Christ did not make the parish. He made priests, and He needed a +roof over His cenacle. (The priesthood is instituted by Christ, not the +boundaries to His priesthood, expressed in modern parish limits.) For +centuries, the Church was expanding—conscious that the end of the +world was nigh. Every bishop grazed his flock, and whenever possible +had a flock small enough that he himself could say Mass for them. The +imagery for pastoral care as well as the relationship between pastor +(the bishop was the only pastor) and his faithful was taken from the +vocabulary of shepherds, Mediterranean shepherds, who have no fixed +home and wander with their sheep from pasture to pasture—from earth +to heaven. Christians considered themselves as strangers in a strange +world, children banned from their country. The word “parish” came from +a Greek verb meaning: to live like a foreigner—to be without a home. + +## The Cenacle Among Nonhristians + +The twelve apostles found it necessary to ordain one man in every community to the fullness of the priesthood. This man, the bishop of the city, +made the rounds and celebrated the sacred mysteries in the houses of +different Christians. In the Stationhurches of Rome we have a remnant +of this usage: the oldest among them carry the names of private families, +and their name expresses nothing but the address at which the Christians +would meet for Mass. In these homes Mass would be said regularly, and +often the room in which Mass was said slowly developed into a chapel— +the family ceased to use it as a dining room and the cenacle grew into a +Church. The number of Christians too, continually was growing. Soon +one pastor, the bishop, was not enough for the community, and so we see +several popes ordaining priests—priests who would say Mass where the +bishop could not go and who would preach whenever the bishop would +not find the time to do so. Often these priests attended one particular +Church in preference to others, but we cannot yet say that they were +pastors. The bishop still was the only pastor in the city, and these priests +were his assistants. Pope Innocent I in 417 tells us that he was in the +habit of breaking his host, when saying Mass, into small fragments and +sending one of these fragments to every priest celebrating in the city of +Rome, that he might let it fall into his chalice and might realize that it +is really one Mass said throughout the city, the Mass of the bishop. The +breaking of the host into three parts today is a remnant of that custom. + +## The Parish as the Heart of the City + +From the beginning, Christianity developed faster in the cities than in +the country. But by the end of the 5th century Christianity had expanded +into new mission territories, and the last strongholds of paganism in the +rural areas of southern Europe were falling by the 7th century. Always +more and more bishops asked their priests to take over independently +the exercise of their ministry. No more was the bishop the only father +and the priest nothing but his helpers; the priests themselves had to take +over under their bishops all three realms of pastoral duties: the administration of the sacraments, the teaching of the Gospel and the guidance +of the people. + +Of old when every city where Christians lived had its own bishop (or +“angel” as St. John calls him in his seven letters to the seven “Churches” +in Asia Minor), dioceses had been multiplied easily and eagerly. This is +the reason why there are so many of them in the countries which came +to the faith before the 6th century. Now the bishop made every one of his +priests responsible for a welletermined part of his people and slowly, +clearly assigned the limits to the territory for which a priest was responsible—boundaries which often on one side remained open toward the +virgin soil never yet touched by Christian preaching. + +The parish as a living cell of the diocese had been brought into existence by the Church. Christ had instituted His priesthood for His people. +In apostolic times the Church found it necessary to assign a given part of +her Mystical Body to a given bishop. He alone is priest in the full sense of +the word, he alone belongs to the teaching Church, he alone is a successor +of the apostles, he alone wears the wedding ring to show that he is married to the Church. And later on the Church found it necessary to allow +the bishop to subdivide his territory and to make his representatives, +other priests, fully responsible for a parish. +This is how the territorial parish was born, to which belong all those +who live in a given territory, and for whom the pastor assumes responsibility: to feed, teach and guide those who are in the Church and to +convert those who are outside. It went so far that in Europe the word +“parish” became the word for “village.” + +Human factors contributed not less than supernatural faith to make +the parish the heart of the community in Catholic countries. The priest +quite often was the most educated person in the village, custom and folklore centered in the Church and civil life was regulated by the progress +of the liturgical year as the life of every individual was deeply connected +with the Church in the middle of the village. Often also—sometimes +unfortunately—the church became a center for political action. Later +a breakdown in these human factors threatened to remove the parish +from its central position in the hearts of the people. And then came the +Reformation, and with it the Catholic community of Europe was broken +down. From then on we can hardly speak of a common development of +the parish in different countries. We cannot make it our objective here +to study the reasons which brought about the “loss of the masses” in +France, or the motives which made the German parish so susceptible to +the “liturgical movement,” or the final juridical organization that Pius X +(the first pastor in a long time to become pope) brought about in 1917. +Our objective is to understand historically only those elements common +to the American parish—and not those minor elements, as important +as they might be, which shaped the characteristic face of this or that +national parish. After all, we are in search of the common denominator— +if there is one—of most criticism voiced by Catholics against the Church +in this country. + +## The Protective Parish + +The American parish—if we can speak about such a thing—was always +established as a center around which a minority rallied: people who used +the parish to defend what they had. The Church always had reasons to +be concerned for the protection, not only of the faith of her children, +but also of their old Christian customs with their strong symbolic power +to evoke occasions for the profession of faith. The Church always had +been made into a bulwark of tradition and continuity. At the moment +of the big migration of Catholics to this country, the Church had reason +to be overoncerned. Poor migrants who left their country to find a +living came into a highly competitive society, heavily influenced by the +Calvinistic faith that the good succeed, and in the joy of its newound +independence, somewhat set against the newcomers. They brought their +priests with them, pastors of a migrating flock, rather than missioners +to a civilization in need. They were more concerned to conserve the +faith of their people than to convert a new nation. Heavy stress was laid +on meetings among “our own,” associations which would foster marriages among Catholics, and education which would equip the child to +remain a Catholic. The Church became a tremendous bulwark for the +Catholic. Never before had the Church had to perform this task, or at +least never before had it succeeded. Small numbers of missioners had +converted whole countries. Some Catholic minorities had withstood the +Reformation—and tiny little groups of Catholics had been able, along +with the language of their homeland, to conserve the faith in the interior of the Balkans and the Middle East. But never before had a group +of immigrants changed their national allegiance and remained faithful +to the Church. And they did it through their schools and parochial societies: which willyilly constituted another chance for Catholics to feel +themselves a minority in an alien culture. Repeated insistence that you +can be a good American and at the same time a good Catholic only contributed toward this feeling. + +## The Budding Parish + +Catholics may belong to a minority, but the Church cannot be a minority. +She is always the leaven: a minority lives in an enclave—the leaven penetrates. To separate the leaven from the flour means uselessness for both. +If Catholics ever lose their concern for those who do not have God, they +lose also their charity. Many a contemporary parish has contributed +towards this separation by preserving an atmosphere which was once +necessary but is no longer so. +In the sheltered atmosphere of a Church which continues the traditions of a geographically isolated Catholic community within a +nonatholic society, the parish has developed into a most efficient center +for the administration of the sacraments and the imparting of religious +instructions. In fact, never has there been a period in Church history +that saw such a high percentage of baptized Catholics so well instructed +and living such an intense sacramental life. Without a knowledge of the +historical background of today’s parish it would be impossible to account +for the one surprising shortcoming of this Church in America: the lack of +influence of Catholics among nonatholics, or, to say it in other words, +their lack of missionary spirit. Only by realizing that this lack is a characteristic left over from a struggle for survival do we understand that it +is not a direct refusal of responsibility—but rather a sign of immaturity. +A century ago, a newly arrived immigrant was often socially confined to his own national group—without denying his background, he +could not associate with “the old American.” That was the time when the +Church had to protect him from contact with nonatholics in fear that +through his “otherness” he might lose his faith; and the immigrant in +turn could not feel responsible for neighbors he did not know. Today it +is rare for a Catholic not to be accepted because of his background. Many +Protestants have become his neighbors, associates and friends. It is often +under the influence of a long past competition that today the Catholic +fails to meet the new missionary challenge. + +It is as if God had allowed a strong seed to mature in the earth during +the winter and now the time has come for it to bud: wellrained Catholics +all over this country are willing to risk responsibility for those outside +and are waiting for specific preparation in their parish. The word “parishioner” should not refer only to the Catholic. The parish must become +and is becoming in the consciousness of the Catholic the spiritual home +of all who live within its boundaries—even if many do not know where +their home is. This is happening all over. The Legion of Mary is growing; +these are laymen who consecrate two evenings a week to the conversion +of their neighbor. The Christian Family Movement, Cana Conferences, +the changing of oldype Church societies, and the lifeong struggle of +many a priest prepare the spirit into which converts, the fruit of various campaigns, can be welcomed. Even the Catholic outsider like Jose +is meeting with a reception on which former Catholic newcomers could +never count. + +Years ago the challenge of a new mass migration of Catholics would +have been met with the establishment of national parishes. The average +American parish had not yet started to be either American or missionary. +Today, very slowly, the way is opening for a newcomer to be a Catholic +in his own way without having to insist on it, without having to “protect” +his human background in order to save his faith. +Special Mass with Spanish Sermon? + +That Sunday when I met Jose and his friends at eleven o’clock on the +Church steps I could not help asking: should we have a special Mass +for him with a Spanish sermon? Might not such a Mass develop into +a Jim Crow meeting? Should we introduce Spanish devotions? Special +Spanish social groups? Should we allow his sister’s friends to wear their +white veils or should we prudently introduce the traditional sign of the +Children of Mary into our established congregation? Or should we hope +that a national church be established for him in our neighborhood with +the danger that his children will reject their faith with their inevitable +rejection of Spanish culture? + +## Understanding and the Future + +These questions about Jose, and many more about others who do not +find in our parishes what they seek, must be answered with some background of history and theology, and with a prudence which judges the +unique living situation. These questions must be asked courageously +and answered always anew. Criticism of the parish will thus become an +examination of conscience for everybody who engages in it: layman, +priest and outsider alike. And if it is not criticism of the clergy or the laity, +but of the institution itself, it will mostly revolve around the idea that the +protective parish is a thing of the past almost everywhere in this country. +During the winter it was good that the seed remained hidden in the +earth, but in spring, if it does not bud it rots. |